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by Joe Hickman, editor, HaLife.com

August 23, 2005


A Happy Face

     As we were leaving for the Arboretum, Casey stuck a happy face sticker on my right hand. She also stuck one on Grammy's hand and one on hers. When you're four years old, every hand needs a happy face.

     Casey is our granddaughter. She's a delight. This day was hers, but already it was becoming mine, too.

     My hand looked awful: discolored, bruised, and scarred, A hand covered with very old skin, thinned by years of steroids.

     But the happy face sticker did something for it. Sort of perked it up.

     At the Arboretum, we played in about six playhouses that looked like Little Houses on the Prairie. There was also a playchurch, playschool, and playstore.

     A 4-year-old loves playstuff.

      We climbed on giant frogs and laughed and took photos -- and then saw the sign that said, "Please Don't Climb on the Frogs!"

     The frogs spewed long streams of water from their mouths. Casey laughed a lot and got very wet.

     Yes, we saw many gorgeous flowers, but pretty flowers are not as exciting as giant spitting frogs.

     Back home, we had ham and cheese sandwiches and grapes for lunch, then headed to the patio to fill her swimming pool. I filled the 8-foot-diameter plastic pool with a foot of water. Grammy read and swung and watched Casey play in the pool.

     But swimming is not as much fun alone, and Grammy told Casey I still had an old swimsuit somewhere.

     For an hour I sat in a foot of water hoping no one would drive down the alley and peek across the fence.

     From my old hand, the happy face grinned up at me.

     Then inside, we played Barbie dolls. It's not my best game, but I did okay. I had dressed and undressed the same Barbies 30 years ago with our daughter Carrie.

     Back on the patio for a picnic dinner, a special pasta too messy to eat on the den carpet where Casey first wanted to picnic.

     A Popsicle, a game of Old Maid, and a walk around the block. Casey walked most of the way on the curb.

    For a while, I walked backwards. "You're walking backwards, Grandad," observed Casey. "No I'm not," I argued. "Yes you are." "No I'm not."

    "Grandad, you're a silly goose."

    "Can't argue with that."

    When Casey finally drifted off the sleep, I still had her happy face stuck to my hand.

    What a fun day.

     Best part, everything this child says and does takes me back to when Carrie was four. Back to a time when my hands were strong and useful.

     As the years pass, memories of your little girl's childhood fade. But a granddaugher's visit brings them back.

     I might just keep that happy face forever.


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