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November 23, 2008

 Thanksgiving

by Joe Hickman, editor, HaLife.com

Thanksgiving is a marvelous holiday. A few days leading into it we can begin a time of introspection, which always leads to positive thoughts and a new appreciation of God's grace.

"Always giving thanks for all things."

All things?

Was Paul the Apostle on some mind altering drug?

Even attempting to give thanks for all things, good and bad,  would seem silly -- except maybe during the Thanksgiving season.

But now, maybe we should try.

Today I am very thankful for doctors and nurses everywhere, particularly at Baylor Medical Center in Dallas, where I spent most of the past week.

I have COPD, and could not breath very well on Monday when Dr. Casanova, Dr. Black, and Dr. Katon took charge and handed me over to Joanna, a nurse from Nigeria who really knows her stuff. Nurses Carolyn and David, techs LaFeadre and Donald, and several respiratory, physical, occupational, and speech therapists also were involved. All were very good at their jobs and really wanted to help.

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Donald, a nursing student at El Centro College and working as a tech, was also funny. Donald said he could never get a date until he changed his name to Kevin. Then,  as Kevin, he was so popular he could barely keep up.  So he became Donald again and had only one other date. He married her.

As he wheeled me to the curb for my trip home late Thursday, he was on the phone with his wife, trying to explain how to unlock a steering wheel. He said they planned no children until he finished nursing school, at least 2½ more years -- and then they would have triplets.

Thank you, God, for medical staff like Donald and all the others at Baylor. Thanks to them for the hope of breathing better for years to come.

My favorite nurse, of course,  is Jackie, my wife, who would be retired if she didn't have to care for me. There is something very special about nurses. Jackie returns every Tuesday to help with and read to children at the Low Birth Weight Clinic at Children's Medical Center, the same preemie clinic she ran for years before she retired in 2005.

She helped Sarah of the Dallas Area Parkinsonism Society, Bindu, and me start a Parkinson's Exercise Group at the Juanita Craft Recreation Center on Fridays. We could not succeed in this effort without Bindu, the wonderful physical therapist, who grew up in India and who came to my home for two months to give me hope of walking again.

Jackie feeds my birds every day. Since my aspiration pneumonia in July, I have not been able to walk much.  My hope is to improve enough to soon walk every day with the birds in my back yard.

Thank you, God, for Jackie, Bendu, DAPS, and for the birds.

My favorite bird is Charlie, a dove or pigeon who flew in every morning for about a month earlier this year. I had never seen a bird with Charlie's colors, or one that wasn't afraid of me. In the mornings,

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when I spread seed on his pedestal, Charlie would swoop in, gently brushing his wings against my head, and eat his seeds with me standing right beside him.

All the other sparrows, doves, house finches, cowbirds, cardinals, blue jays, goldfinches, and monk parakeets perch and wait for me to leave the yard before they venture in to eat.

Thank you, God, for Charlie. Maybe he can come again some day.

Thanks for all the drugs I hate. For sinemet and prednisone, and for all the suppositories and enemas they require.

Thank you, God, for re-runs:  "The Cosby Show" and "The Andy Griffith Show." What wonderful programs for hospital watching.

Thank you, God, for all news commentators, even the ones I disagree with.  Bill O'Reilly obviously doesn't know it all, but neither do I. May none of us ever be so sure we're right about things that we stop listening and learning.

Liberals should listen to conservatives, and vice, of course, versa. Thank you, God, for listeners.

I always try to thank God for things I like: for beef pot roast and stew with potatoes and carrots, Blue Bell, lemon ice cream cake, Birds & Blooms magazine, PC World, Sunday School, every child on Earth and vicinity, childhood memories of sunshine and ducks on stock ponds, jokes & trivia, Pudge Rodriguez, Rolando Blackman, Dirk Nowitzki, warm socks, wildflowers, even pretty weeds, Johnny Cash, Elvis, Miley Cyrus and a photo of granddaughter Casey in her Halloween Hannah Montana costume.  Stuff like that.

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 For Gregorio and Maria, our next door neighbors.  Almost two years ago, when I began falling, he came over and took away my lawn mower and started mowing my lawn. He refused to accept pay; said Maria wouldn't let him. Gregorio can do anything. He has painted,  installed rails up all three of our outside stairs, enlarged a hall doorway so I can wheel to the bathroom. He cleans gutters, blows off the patio.

Thank you, God, for Gregorio, and please give him a safe journey back to Mexico at Christmas for a one-year memorial for his Mom, who died last year.

For my adopted daughter, Carrie, the most wonderful young lady in the world, and for her youth pastor husband, Brian, and the teens they minister to.

I may be most thankful for the radio personalities, speakers, and comedians who have made my life a joy by paying me to be silly. I especially am thankful for the 3,000 or so who still come to HaLife.com every day for more.

How can God be so gracious to me?

Thank you, Lord, for Jackie's cousin, Shirley, who's driving us to Denton for a family Thanksgiving. And for machines that deliver pure oxygen, no matter where I go.

Thank you for ladies who get a thrill coming up with new ways to serve cranberries (chutney?), but who don't mind if I eat only a few bites.

It's only a start, but the next few days, I will add to the list, looking particularly for things I never thanked God for before. For things I don't like. For everything!

No, Paul wasn't on mind drugs, he was simply rooted and grounded in God.

I invite you to join me. Your list might help me think of more things. And with enough, maybe I can post them to help others. Send through "Feedback" below.

Happy Thanksgiving.  May you rejoice!

Another word for rejoice, I believe, is "laugh!"    

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