• get kids'
attention. And open their ears.
• can melt multiple harsh words. For both you and
your child.
• make you smile! And it's tough to stay angry when you're smilin'.
• model generosity of spirit. Give and you shall receive!
• are the right way to welcome home someone weary from his or her
day.
• feel GREAT!
Many scientific studies have
shown the positive effects of hugging. More importantly to me, I've seen the
positive effects in my own family.
As parents, we sometimes grope for the right words to inspire our
children. We question our own choice of disciplinary tactics. We agonize over our apparent
inadequacies in this most important of jobs.
So hug.
Hugging is virtually always helpful (especially when our children claim
to not want it); soothing, comforting, and very hard to over-do, as long as you are
sincere.
Best of all, when the hugs start coming back at you, you'll know why
'Mom' or 'Dad' is the best title in the world!
Colleen Langenfeld offers helpful ideas to busy working
moms. Use our resources at http://www.paintedgold.com
to make your life feel easier, healthier, and smarter.
