Someone made the statement: "To err is dysfunctional, to forgive co-dependent."
I sometimes wonder if we believe that. Yet true forgiveness is still one of the most
remarkable traits a human can possess!
A few years ago, Hildegard Goss-Mayr of the "International
Fellowship of Reconciliation" told this true story.
In the midst of tragic fighting in Lebanon in the 1970s, a Christian
seminary student was walking from one village to the next when he was ambushed by an armed
Druze guerrilla fighter. The Druze ordered his captive down a mountain trail where he was
to be shot.
But an amazing thing happened. The seminarian, who had received
military training, was able to surprise his captor and disarm him. Now, the table was
turned, and it was the Druze who was ordered down the trail.
As they walked, however, the student of theology began to reflect on
what was happening. Recalling the words of Jesus, "Love your enemies; do good to
those who hate you; turn the other cheek," he found he could go no further. He threw
the gun into the bushes, told the Druze he was free to go and turned back up the hill.
Minutes later, he heard footsteps running behind him as he walked.
"Is this the end after all?" he wondered. Perhaps the Druze had retrieved the
gun and wanted to finish him off.
But he continued on, never glancing back, until his enemy reached him, only to grab him in
an embrace and pour out thanks for sparing his life.
Mercy often wears the face of forgiveness. And though it usually isn't
an enemy in uniform that we are challenged to forgive, we have opportunities for mercy
everyday. Family members and friends, co-workers and neighbors and even strangers have
need for our
forgiveness. You know who they are.
As Mahatma Gandhi said, "The weak
can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." Be
strong. Forgive.
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