A group of teachers posed the question to a
group of 4 to 8 year-olds.
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over
and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when
his hands got arthritis too. That's love." ...Rebecca - age 8
"When someone
loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in
their mouth." ...Billy - age 4
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." ...Karl - age 5
"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of
your French Fries without making them give you any of theirs." ...Chrissy - age 6
"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
...Terri - age 4
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she
takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." ...Danny - age 7
"Love is when
you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together
and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss."
...Emily - age 8
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you
stop opening presents and listen." ...Bobby - age 7
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with
a friend who you hate." ...Nikka - age 6
"There are two kinds of love. Our love and God's love. But
God makes both kinds of them." ...Jenny - age 8
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he
wears it everyday." ...Noelle - age 7
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who
are still friends even after they know each other so well." ...Tommy - age 6
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared.
I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the
only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." ...Cindy - age 8
"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone
else kissing me to sleep at night." ...Clare - age 6
"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of
chicken." ...Elaine - age 5
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still
says he is handsomer than Robert Redford." ...Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left
him alone all day." ...Mary Ann - age 4
"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all
her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." ...Lauren - age 4
"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and
little stars come out of you." ...Karen - age 7
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it.
But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." ...Jessica - age 8
And the final one: Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once
talked about a contest that he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find
the most caring child. The winner was a 4-year-old child whose next door neighbour was an
elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy
went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap and just sat there.
When his Mother asked him what he had said to the neighbour, the
little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry."