Lord, keep me from the habit of thinking I
must say something on every subject and on every occasion.
Release me from craving to straighten out everybody's affairs.
Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details---give me
wings to get to the point. I ask for grace enough to listen to the tales of others' pains.
But seal my lips on my own aches and pains---they are increasing,
and my love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the years go by.
Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally it is possible
that I may be mistaken.
Keep me reasonably sweet; I do not want to become a saint--some
of them are so hard to live with--but a sour old person is one of the crowning works of
the devil.
Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places, and
talents in unexpected people.
And give me, O Lord, the grace to tell them so.
Make me thoughtful, but not moody; helpful, but not bossy. With
my vast store of wisdom, it seems a pity not to use it all--but Thou knowest, Lord, that I
want a few friends at the end.
[Author unknown, from Bill Stebbins]