Comedian Groucho Marx quipped, "Those are my principles. If you don't like them, I
have others." You and I have
principles. And we also have opinions. I have opinions about what I think is right or
wrong or good or bad. But they're only opinions - I COULD be wrong! I won't try to build
my life around my opinions, but I WILL endeavor to stand by my principles.
A 15-year-old boy learned a valuable
lesson about life principles. He wrote a letter to "Dear Abby" about finding a
woman's wallet that contained $127 as well as the woman's identification. He hopped onto
his bicycle and peddled over to her house - about a mile away. He told her he found her
wallet and she gave him a big hug. She also gave him twenty dollars.
That evening the boy told his
parents about the event and his father said, "I don't think you should have accepted
$20 for doing what you should have done. A person shouldn't be rewarded for being
honest."
He pondered his father's statement and
decided he would return the money. He biked to the lady's home and gave her back the
twenty dollars. She didn't want to take it, but he told her she had to - that his father
pointed out something to him that he had never realized before. Her eyes filled with tears
as she said, "This is one for Ripley."
The boy's question to Abby? "Abby,
who is Ripley?"
Is a life built around principles so
unusual that Robert Ripley should mention it in his column "Believe It or Not"?
When ideals such as honesty and a personal standard of always doing the right thing guide
our every action and decision, we actually change. These great principles shape our lives
and make us into persons of character. They build self esteem and teach confidence. That
boy is fortunate to be raised by a wise father who had the wisdom to say, "Those are
my principles."
Martin Luther King, Jr. put it well:
"The time is always right to do what is right." Those were his principles.
Decide to always do what is right - today and every day - and you will find yourself
building a life that matters.

Steve Goodier Publisher@LifeSupportSystem.com is a
professional speaker, consultant and author of numerous books. Visit his site for more
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