Sharing Valentine’s Day With Others
- Q: My wife and I have been talking about celebrating the upcoming Valentine's Day. During our 30 years of marriage, we have usually enjoyed moonlight dinners, going to a concert or taking a short vacation. However, this year, we would like to do something extra and share our blessings with others. What would you suggest?
Social
Security’s Most Misunderstood Rule -
Regular readers of my column know that over the years,
I've dealt with many misunderstandings that people
have about their Social Security benefits. In fact, I
just wrote a column a couple of weeks ago that dealt
with many of these misconceptions. But I can tell from
the hundreds of emails I've received as a result of
that column that there is one issue people get wrong
more than any other.
Yes, Social Security Is an “Entitlement” -- Literally
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"That's what's wrong with our country today. We
have an entitlement culture. Everyone thinks they are due
something from the government."
Scam
Warfare - You need to take action
immediately. Senior scams are escalating. The largest scams
focus on identify theft, debt collection, Internet services,
prizes, auctions and foreign money requests.
My
Life as a Freeloader -
Q: I thought the column you wrote
criticizing people for what you called "disability bashing" was
very worthwhile and well-spoken. People do become disabled and
need assistance. Social Security's real problems are those
freeloading families who get benefits from a deceased parent.
What’s With the Disability Bashing?
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"We all know that if we cut their government
checks, most of these deadbeats would go out and get a job the
next day!" That is total poppycock on a number of different
levels. And I'll use today's column to explain why.
Dear Doug:
Money Can't Buy Happiness
- Q: Our daughter-in-law is a spendthrift and keeps our son on a financial and emotional edge with her excessive spending for her family's "needs and wants." About every six months, our son is forced to ask us for a loan in order to make their ends meet. Of course, our loan no longer means a loan — it has become a gift!
What's our solution?
First Year of Retirement Rule
May Help - Q: I have just turned 62 and will get my first Social
Security check in October. I actually retired several
years ago, but I still do a bit of consulting. So far
this year, I've made about $11,000. I know I can make
$14,160 once I'm on Social Security. So, does that
mean I could make $14,160 between October and
December?
◊Considering
Taking Social Security Early? Think About What This Might Mean
for Your Spouse
Dear Doug: Enjoy Your Now Now
- Is anyone surprised we are getting hooked on the dollar stores? Should we use our backup savings to buy a car or larger TV? Will prices be cheaper next year? What is your take?
More Internet Lies Uncovered
- I covered about half of the attacks last week. This
week, I am looking at more misleading allegations and
more hard facts.
Your Social Security: Half-Truths and
Outright Lies - I occasionally get e-mails from
"friends" that contain slams against the Democrats
with respect to Social Security. I'm pretty sure
their facts are bogus. But I don't have enough
information about the issues to know for sure. Can
you help me understand this latest diatribe?
Power of Attorney is Powerless with Social Security -
Q: I have been granted "power of attorney"
to handle my brother's affairs. But when I went to my local
Social Security office to take care of some of his Social
Security business, they wouldn't help me. I asked to speak to a
supervisor, and she said she couldn't help me either. Why won't
the Social Security Administration recognize my power of
attorney status?
Who is the Most Romantic?
- The battle of the sexes will always be one of our society's
favorite topics. People are interested in the mystery of how and
why relationships do or do not work.
A Senior
Song
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Ode to Forgetfulness.
You Could be Your Own Best Investor for 2010
- Many money managers are predicting both a dicey
economy and a muddy crystal ball. Major concerns are being
focused on the possibility of a sudden upward interest rate
movement as well as how many more domestic and foreign
bankruptcies may erupt.
Lifelong
Health: Knowledge is Vaccine for Swine
Flu Paranoia -
Swine flu, or H1N1, is spreading across the
country, primarily affecting children and young
adults who cluster together in schools and
colleges. This is leading to a heightened fear
and paranoia about the virus, fears that may
only get worse as the vaccine becomes available
and doctors must ration who receives it.
Your Social Security
- Going Back to Work can Boost Social Security Payments.
Dear Doug:: Wise Advice for Tough Times
- Q: My wife and I thought we had it made when we both retired at 65. Now, we are counting pennies. After we buy groceries, pay utilities, make car payments, pay taxes and make our church pledge, we find ourselves tapped out. What can we now do?
Golden Anniversary Party Time - My wife and I will
celebrate our 50th anniversary with our children and friends in
October. I want to express to my wife how much I love her. I am
nervous about my speaking and want to keep it short, humorous
and not boring. How can I do that?